Cape Kid of the Month - Mallory Aronne: The teen who left kindness as her legacy!

Cape Kid of the Month – Mallory Aronne: The teen who left kindness as her legacy!

Cape Kid of the Month - Mallory Aronne: The teen who left kindness as her legacy!
Cape Kid of the Month – Mallory Aronne: The teen who left kindness as her legacy!

Mallory Aronne, an 8th-grader at Rumson Country Day School in Rumson, New Jersey, had a mission! She wanted to leave a legacy at her school, before graduating this May. She decided she wanted her legacy to be her kindness.

After mentioning the idea to her mother, Mallory rolled up her sleeves. She designed the mission, spoke with her head of school and service coordinator, and ironed out details until her vision became a reality.  She then enlisted the help of teachers, parent coordinators, and the student council to launch her mission. These adults were so inspired by her heart that they held a special assembly for the students, which discussed spreading positivity.

Mallory’s mission to spread kindness was not the first time she left a special mark in her school.
Mallory’s mission to spread kindness was not the first time she left a special mark in her school.

Using the school’s four pillars – Kind, Honest, Responsible, Respectful – Mallory created and distributed a checklist of simple ways her schoolmates could spread kindness throughout the school over the course of a week. Several ideas included holding the door for others, saying, “thank you,” and visiting classrooms to play a special game or read a story.  The week-long challenge ended with a bake sale, from which proceeds were donated to Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia’s pediatric cardiac unit.

In addition to her kindness challenge, Mallory is involved in the school chorus and is excited about beginning cross country and track in high school.
In addition to her kindness challenge, Mallory is involved in the school chorus and is excited about beginning cross country and track in high school.

In addition to her kindness challenge, Mallory is involved in the school chorus and is excited about beginning cross-country and track in high school. She also takes vocal and keyboarding lessons outside of school, as well as kickboxing and Jiu-Jitsu at a local gym. What’s more, she is presently working towards receiving her confirmation at church.

Mallory’s mission to spread kindness was not the first time she left a special mark in her school. When in 6thgrade, Mallory courageously spoke during an assembly at Rumson Country Day School’s Upper School about her struggle with anxiety. She speaks openly and honestly about mental health issues and concerns, with her friends and adults.

Mallory shared, “As children/young adults, it can be hard to find ways to make a positive change in your community. In the end, it doesn’t matter if what you did is big or small. What matters is that you made an effort to impact someone’s day, and maybe even make it a bit brighter.”

Her mother Sarah Ahmadi proudly states, “I’m doubly impressed that she had the courage and drive to see this large-scale project through.”

It is amazing to see the great impact one person can make for so many. Mallory, you certainly did this at your school, as well as inspiring us at Wear the Cape. We are incredibly proud of you for acting on your idea and for spreading kindness.

If you have an amazing kid whom you would like to nominate for Wear the Cape’s Cape Kid of the Month, please email leighann@wearthecapekids.com.

Cape Kid of the Month – Dean Ciccarelli – May 2018

Dean-CiccarelliIt is a privilege to name Dean Ciccarelli as our Cape Kid for the month of May.  Dean, who is a student at Chatham High School, in New Jersey dedicates much of his time to kindness…and we are incredibly proud!

Dean has been involved in his school’s sports teams, as he was a member of the Cougar’s varsity wrestling team and freshman lacrosse team.  As well, he has shown great commitment and determination to both himself and his peers, as he spent seven years training to become a black belt in Tae Kwon Do, when he was a fifth grader. When he was overwhelmed and wanted to quit, Dean persisted until he reached his goal.

Dean-CiccarelliWith all this, Dean makes time to volunteer, and serve his community, on a regular basis. Each year Dean is a Cape Kid volunteer at kidkind foundation’s holiday event, where he collects guests’ donations for our military overseas and gifts for underprivileged children.  Also at this event, he works with our youngest Cape Kids to help facilitate a fun evening.

Along with his Youth Ministry group, Dean volunteers to make food for the homeless throughout the year. He also volunteered at a local food pantry with his lacrosse team, to help those in need.

Dean has been a constant source of support to Wear the Cape, his family, and friends.  His mom, Ann states, “Since the day he was able to talk we knew that Dean was going to be one special kid.  He has always been wiser than his years and always has been very concerned with others well being. I have seen various occasions where Dean has seen something that just didn’t seem “right” to him and stepped in to make sure that kids are OK and not being treated poorly. “

Dean-CiccarelliWith this in mind, it came as no surprise that Dean met with his superintendent of schools to propose a kidkind kindness club, which he will facilitate, in his district’s elementary schools.  It is Dean’s goal to work with middle school students to help transition them to middle and high school, while promoting kindness, heroism, good character and being BETTER THAN THAT™.  As Dean states, “Being BETTER THAN THAT™ is doing good things, whether that means to be accepting of someone or to even just hold the door for someone.”

Dean, we thank you for your commitment to kindness. You are a true example of being BETTER THAN THAT™ and we are excited to see your kidkind club come to fruition.

A Year of Transformation, Starting Today

As 2018 is just beginning, I want to take this time to wish you and your loved ones a year filled with much peace, good health, and lots of laughter. As I look back on the past year, I am reminded of the great strides we have taken, as a nation, to help eradicate bullying and promote heroism, good character, and kindness.

Although we have started to climb the “Heroic Hill”, we are not quite at the top yet. We still have a great deal of work to do to combat bullying, in every form. This is where I call out to you for help. I implore you to take a deep, hard look into your home and family. Determine if you are truly being a positive role model for your family and create a plan for your family to make a difference in the neighborhood, community, and world.

The change that is needed for a kinder, more peaceful world can begin with you and your family. Let’s vow to make 2018 the year of transformation…the year where love overflows in our hearts, family, and world.

In kindness,
Leigh Ann Errico